Socialization and The Family

The means of communication have drastically changed over the past two decades.  The traditional landline telephone was the most commonly used device used for communication between family members.  Later the pager was introduced into the picture and then the coveted cell phone.  Currently, we have smart phones, laptop computers, tablet devices such as the iPad and Galaxy Tab, and video chatting software.  These developments have changed the face of socialization and as a result, we have various means to communicate.  As parents, we can virtually track the whereabouts of our children at any given time.  I'm sure my parents wished they had this luxury however, while the parents love this...I'm sure the children have a different opinion.  No longer can a child use the excuse "I didn't have a way to call you" when they break curfew...

This new technology has also changed the language of communication.  I literally have to use translation when reading text messages sent between my teenager and her friends.  "LOL" is the expression used when "laughing out loud" to a comment o statement made by another.  ": )" is also used to show a happy expression or suggest a happy state of being. There are many more that parents should be aware of because not all of the expressions are positive.  Children are exposed to many elements of communication and the unfortunate thing is that they often gravitate to the negative things.  It is a parent's responsibility to keep up with the latest texting language and also communication devices otherwise; you will live in a separate world from your child.  Thus creating a disconnect when communicating with your child.

How many families can come home and disconnect and turn off all communication devices including computers, cell phones, and iPods?  Many have become socialization addicts where it is near impossible to disable these devices in fear of missing the latest happenings.  With Twitter feeds, Facebook posts, text messages, emails, and Skype or Tango, we have access to the world.  Again, this can be a positive or negative experience depending on the user.  On a positive side, I am able to Skype/Tango and post on Facebook with family members across the nation and even those in the military who are on duty internationally.  It eliminates any excuse for not communicating with those I love and care about.  I can socialize virtually anywhere and that also is a huge positive.  I can keep in touch with my children, parents, siblings and more while at work, home, or even in the line at the bank.  It's wonderful!  Technology and Socialization are improving and this has worked in favor of the family.  It allows for constant connection to those you love so what can be better than that?